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Dating During Divorce

I use men.  Yep, I do.  I’m using men during my divorce to learn to date again, to learn to be more confident, to say what I really feel rather than saying what I think he will want to hear.

     I’m using men to learn what I want again, to fix my broken “picker,” to learn what qualities I want and like in a man.  And to learn about men.

I don’t want or need a boyfriend right now, but I know someday I will be ready for one.  And when that time comes, I want to be able to pick a good one, to be able to know a good one from the start, and to be able to weed out the bad ones from the beginning too.  To be able to see the red flags.

So, yep, I’m using men until that point.